BOOKS AUTHORED BY PASTOR AYO AND IBIDUN OLUDE


MARRIAGE CAN BE A PIECE OF CAKE

Although marriage is rarely described as “a piece of cake,” the author uses the cake-baking process to illustrate how marriage is meant to function. They emphasize that many important steps—like cultivating the right mindset and preparing for marital challenges—should begin before marriage, not after.



MARRIAGE CAN BE A PIECE OF CAKE - WORKBOOK



This workbook presents simple but uncommon principles for building a successful marriage, offering practical, direct, and insightful guidance rather than myths or guesswork. It explains why some marriages fail, teaches essential love needs and harmful “love busters” to avoid, and even addresses sexual intimacy in a clear and respectful way.


THE HEART OF MAN

This book is written as a practical teaching resource to help parents, pastors, teachers, and anyone seeking scriptural insight into the true nature and workings of the human heart. Drawing from biblical revelation, it explains how the heart shapes a person’s life outcomes and offers guidance for those who desire restoration and growth.


TEACH US TO PRAY: A GUIDE TO EFFECTIVE PRAYING

In "Teach us to Pray', like a skilled guide, the author lays the building blocks for effective praying which is based on the Word of God. This truly practical resource material will spur the reader on to pray effectively with practical steps on how to sustain an effective prayer life and consistently enjoy victorious Christian living. This book is a must read for you and your loved ones.



THE HELPER QUESTION

In a world of women's rights and gender debates, many women struggle with whether they are meant only to support a man’s vision or if they can pursue their own purpose. This book seeks to reveal biblical truth about a woman’s identity and purpose, freeing women from misconceptions that lead to either passivity or rebellion.


RAISING OF SONS

The author challenges the growing trend of young men avoiding responsibility in marriage and seeking “ready-made” women, leading to broken homes and suffering. This book calls for a balanced upbringing of both boys and girls—training sons to be responsible, sacrificial men and raising children through godly modeling and guidance.

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